Should I Date Someone Who Is Married?

Good question. But the answer is no! Absolutely not,4) You decided to purchase flowers and other
unless you're looking for trouble in your relationship.miscellaneous gifts for your date because you like him
Because there's bound to be problems later on downor her and are trying to make a good impression. You
the line for you and the person who you're thinkingforgot and used the joint credit card that you have
about dating who is married. You're probablywith your spouse. Your wife or husband just happened
wondering, why not take the chance and go for it!to get home early from work one day and they went
You're a person that likes challenges. Well a challengeto the mailbox instead of you. Guess what? They got
you'll get and then some. So why bother taking the riskthe credit card statement out of the mailbox that
if there is a possibility that you may have problemsshows the charges you made for those gifts for your
later on down the line. You say, what future problemsdate. You're confronted by your spouse who now has
could there be? Well you may run into some or all ofevidence that you've been cheating on them.
these problems:5) You decide to let your boyfriend who is also
1) The spouse of the married person you're datingmarried borrow your candy apple red 2006 Chevrolet
catches you out on a date when you least expect it!Corvette Convertible, to run some errands he has
This could be very embarrassing for the both of you.before your evening date. Your husband is away on a
How'd you like the spouse of the person you'rebusiness trip. Your license plate reads 4MYWIFE, and
currently dating, to have an angry confrontation in frontyou received your new shiny sports car from your
of the both of you in a public place that you may be athusband on your birthday two months ago. Just so
the time. The angry spouse may not only be verballyhappen, your spouse got back from his business trip
confrontational, but, may get physical with you as well!early and decided that he would surprise you. As he
This would not be good for either of you nor theturned into the driveway of your home, your boyfriend
person's spouse.was exiting your driveway at the same time your
2) Your relatives or friends may catch you and yourspouse arrived. Your spouse was furious to see
date at a restaurant or a movie together. How wouldanother man driving the vehicle he just recently
you explain this to them or your spouse? This wouldpurchased for you. Your boyfriend sped out of your
be an awkward situation for the both of you.driveway when he saw that it was your husband and
3) You or your date are at each others home whilecrashed into an oncoming vehicle. You got busted and
the spouse is away on a business trip or at work. Younot only did your spouse catch you, but now, you have
get very comfortable in your date's home and theto deal with the accident that your boyfriend was in!
telephone rings while they're in the kitchen cookingSo, see how dating someone who is married is not a
dinner. You make the mistake of picking up thegood idea. This could create lots of problems for not
telephone and low an behold your date's spouse is ononly for the two of you, but the people who are in a
the phone wondering why you answered they'rerelationship with you. Your relationship could also have
telephone. Are you going to be able to explaina negative impact on your children and other family
yourself? Probably not!members as well. The best policy is just don't do it!